{"id":27449,"date":"2024-09-03T19:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-03T17:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mzone.cz\/?p=27449"},"modified":"2024-09-03T19:15:35","modified_gmt":"2024-09-03T17:15:35","slug":"ocima-zeny-nevera-vic-skody-nez-uzitku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mzone.cz\/en\/ocima-zeny-nevera-vic-skody-nez-uzitku\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u010dima \u017eeny: Nev\u011bra? V\u00edc \u0161kody ne\u017e u\u017eitku!"},"content":{"rendered":"

K \u010demu je dobr\u00e1 nev\u011bra? Pr\u00fd k tomu, abychom si pozvedli sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Ale pozor! D\u00edky n\u00ed si m\u016f\u017eete taky p\u011bkn\u011b zava\u0159it. Postelov\u00fd rom\u00e1nek toti\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou nep\u0159inese dlouhodob\u011b nic dobr\u00e9ho a v\u011bt\u0161inou kon\u010d\u00ed citovou trag\u00e9di\u00ed pro v\u0161echny z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>
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Co n\u00e1m chyb\u00ed?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nev\u011bra je podle psycholog\u016f \u010dast\u00fdm jevem i ve vztaz\u00edch, kter\u00e9 relativn\u011b funguj\u00ed. Lid\u00e9 to d\u011blaj\u00ed p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b z nudy, touhy po obdivu \u010di nov\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitc\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b je to tak, \u017ee si sv\u00e9ho dosavadn\u00edho partnera chv\u00e1l\u00ed, jak je spolehliv\u00fd, pracovit\u00fd a \u010destn\u00fd. P\u0159esto se jaksi zapomenou v ciz\u00ed posteli.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u010c\u00edm to? Opov\u011b\u010f m\u00e1 uzn\u00e1van\u00fd odborn\u00edk na nev\u011bru, psycholog Petr \u0160molka: ,,Mimoman\u017eelsk\u00fdm vztahem si nej\u010dast\u011bji kompenzujeme n\u011bco, \u010deho se n\u00e1m v man\u017eelstv\u00ed nebo partnerstv\u00ed v\u016fbec nedost\u00e1v\u00e1. \u017den\u00e1m \u010dasto sch\u00e1z\u00ed partnerova pozornost v\u016f\u010di nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm pot\u0159eb\u00e1m jako je vst\u0159\u00edcnost, ochota posed\u011bt a popov\u00eddat si a pocit, \u017ee jsou p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9 a zaj\u00edmav\u00e9.\u201c A mu\u017e\u016fm? P\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b sex. Dobr\u00fd sex.<\/p>
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\"Nev\u011bra<\/figure>
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Flirt (nejen) p\u0159es internet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 jste se n\u011bkdy ocitli v situaci, kdy jste m\u011bli pocit, \u017ee partnerku zaj\u00edm\u00e1 cokoliv,  krom\u011b v\u00e1s. A tak jste se za\u010dali zaj\u00edmat vy! Ale o jin\u00e9 \u017eeny. Dnes je p\u0159eci takov\u00fdch mo\u017enost\u00ed\u2026 Sta\u010d\u00ed vyrazit s kamar\u00e1dem do baru a nebo si zapnout internet a kr\u016f\u010dek k nev\u011b\u0159e je tady. N\u011bkdy ani nejde o nev\u011bru jako takovou, jako pr\u00e1v\u011b o tu pochvalu a pocit porozum\u011bn\u00ed, jak popisuje doktor \u0160molka.<\/p>
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Jenom sex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Zat\u00edmco vy p\u00e1nov\u00e9 sex a l\u00e1sku um\u00edte odd\u011blovat, my \u017eeny nikoliv. Snad jen miziv\u00e9 procento z n\u00e1s tohle dok\u00e1\u017ee. My \u017eeny se v\u011bt\u0161inou citov\u011b anga\u017eujeme, zkr\u00e1tka zamilujeme. \u017densk\u00e1 nev\u011bra toti\u017e m\u00edv\u00e1 p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b fat\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1sledky. \u010casto se chov\u00e1me rozvodov\u011b radik\u00e1ln\u011bji ne\u017e vy mu\u017ei. A to dokonce i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee m\u00e1me d\u011bti. P\u00e1l\u00edme za sebou mosty a vrh\u00e1me se do jin\u00e9 n\u00e1ru\u010de. Vy jako p\u00e1ni tvorstva sp\u00ed\u0161 hled\u00e1te dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed. A proto\u017ee milujete sv\u00e9 pohodl\u00ed, tak si u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te s milenkou, ov\u0161em pak se poslu\u0161n\u011b vr\u00e1c\u00edte domu ke sv\u00e9 dlouholet\u00e9 partnerce.<\/p>
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Couvn\u011bte dokud je \u010das<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Jestli tou\u017e\u00edte po nev\u011b\u0159e a m\u00e1te k n\u00ed vhodnou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost, ho\u010fte rad\u011bji zp\u00e1te\u010dku. M\u00e1me pro v\u00e1s p\u011bt dobr\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d to neud\u011blat a z\u016fstat v\u011brn\u00ed sv\u00fdm partnerk\u00e1m:<\/p>
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